curcat wrote:
Nanny,
You wrote to another poster:
"...Thus I am opposed to telling parents how to raise their own children, unlike you.
Parents are given the responsibility to raise children and they (and their children) either suffer or are blessed by how wisely they carry that out..."
You initiated the thread by posting the article, relating to Quran 65:4, about the 8-year-old girl in Yemen who tried to divorce the husband she was coerced into marrying. I'm guessing you would not be opposed to telling the parent(s) of this girl how to raise their children?
My view: There are times when the state needs to intervene, such as when laws are broken. Of course, the laws in this Yemen case are the problem--it should not be permitted for the child to get married. International pressure is needed against Yemen and other countries that allow this practice of men marrying (and then raping) child-brides.
Actually, curcat, both the Yemeni law and the koran were ignored in this case!
The law of Yemen says a girl must be 15.
In the koran a baby can be ''married," but only "thighed" until she is old enough to be "ready" for sex (in the koran that appears to be age 9.)
So this girl was treated criminally both by Yemeni law being broken AND by the ideals of the koran that her husband wait until she was ''ready'' before having intercourse with her.
(I put quotes around ''ready'' as that is an English translation for it and some muslims might quibble that there are nuances in Arabic that
allow wiggle room.)
